You are not only your worst enemy – You are your ONLY enemy. What you are unwilling to lovingly embrace about yourself is what you will create and experience in and as your life. The most difficult thing – yet the most rewarding thing –  is to fully see, know and accept All of You. This means all the imaginary projections of the past you are still holding on to creating the illusionary identity of You.

You let the past define you instead of using past experience to enter the bank of Knowing to your account of human-ness.
Looking at your past from the eye of thy True Self takes away the judgments and leaves you with Choice as to what you would wish to create as your future.

Keeping the past as a reference point keeps you hostage under the judgements you may just have outgrown already.
Judgements are the repeat button of life. Yes it brings you what you perceive as both good and bad – but it never makes you free. Just right.