So many of us have created a Matrix of decisions, justifications and conclusions about what love is, should be and what´s right and wrong about love. That is all of the Ego – the mental construct you have made greater than your True Self.

For love is a vast space of total allowance, no judgment. Love cannot be defined for it is not of the mental world.
We all tried to find it by looking outside of us for a reliable source to give us and show us and prove us with the “right” love. But that is not possible. It´s just like the fish looking for water whilst swimming in it. It´s always there and you are always in it. Stop looking and you will find that you are it.

As we grow up we learn that in order to receive love we must be a certain way, behave a certain way or achieve a certain thing. We must not do this and that. But True Love has no need. It has no need to fix, it has no need to be fulfilled in order to give. True Love is the space where you be with someone else. You just Be there with no expectations and in honour of whatever is occuring is what needs to be occuring.