The idea that what occurs in our lives as lessons to learn has a density to it for it is based on the idea that you are not yet complete and whole. There is something you have to get, integrate or learn in order to be something that you not yet are. That is incorrect.

This idea is a construct of the mind to keep you trapped in the mind never to find the Universes message to you through what is occuring in your life. You will never be able to see the gift of the experience if you are in your mind trying to figure out what the lesson might be.

This idea is also based on life as a road from birth do death as a timeline set by the being almost like a school. What if that is not really so?

Life is not set at birth –  it is a gift unfolding every second for you to experience the grandness of what you with a body can experience that you cannot without a body.

It has no purpose nor goal for there is no end result to reach. This cannot be emphasized enough.