Everything you experience in your life has to do with Self-Love. Because everything is a reflection of how willing you are to love yourself. This is not in a sense of Me and You. This is in a sense of We. Because to Love yourself is the Key that unlocks Everything.
The Universe is Love. It is pure potential Love. To claim Self-Love is to claim your connction, your part of, your belonging, your presence and your unquestionable gift of Being.
You cannot be separated from the Universe as there is no distinct line between where you begin and end nor where the Universe begin and end. That is why we always refer to the Allness of Creation as the Universe. Because as of now to you as human beings the Universe is incomprehendable. We could refer to it as You but then your mind would immidiately start to ponder this and that would not contribute.
To claim Self-Love is to Know that there is no separation. To claim Self-Love has nothing to do with being lovable or not as that can only be done using comparison.
Self-Love means loving All that IS- simply because it IS. There is no need for anything else.
When in conflict with another ask yourself Where am I not loving myself? In what area of my creation am I unwilling to claim Self-Love. For claiming Self-Love also means that you are willing to Know that you are the creator as you are all that is. You are The Universe. You are Everything and Everything is you.

