Spirituality has nothing to do with rules. Nothing. For you as a being are not limited by or to any rules. Your spirit is All and there for also nothing. It is nothing as in being compared to anything. Because it cannot be defined as anything. As it is All Always.

When it comes to religion there has been a clear misunderstanding. Some of it has to do with good intentions. People wanting to help other people by imposing rules that has made them feel more secure in their insecurity. Because what humans are doing by creating rules is nothing but trying to find a secure place to rest when the connection with Soul seemingly is lost.
To be ruled by such laws, regulations and rules leads you to nothing more then even more fears because then you also need to defend your stanpoint. Not perhapse openly – but in your heart. In your human form you have taken on restrictions to what you find to be possible and not.Creating a separation from the Knowing of your Heartspace – the Love that you Be effortlessly.
Because being in the reality of Spirit and Living from that space will bring you all that you could ever require – although judgeblynot what what you “want” – but what your Being requires in order for you to see when and where you are choosing to Not live from your Heartspace.

You will be gifted all that you could ever need in order to use this basic question: How much more can I love myself that would bring me back to my Heartspace and resolve this issue with ease?

Yes living in your Heartspace may not gift you any of what you have decided ” a successful life” is. Because all you have set that to be is in comparinson to what is not successful – thus it is keeping you from experienceing what you came here in this Life to contribute. But do not be discourraged. You will always again and again be gifted new opportunities to re-find and to re-choose that Space of Being. The whisper of the heart is never ever defeated by anything for the whisper of your heart comes from Source which the mind, the emotions and the feelings or any rules on this Human Earthplane existance can erase or declair or even deny.