Can giving be receiving at the same time?
Yes.

If you are aware of what you give is what you receive and that the need for an outside source for any of it to be confirmed you can live in freedom no matter what happens.
If for example you are offering someone the gift of a meal and they decline, they are not hungry, what then occurs in you?
Do you feel upset, anger, resentment, sadness or even fear that you are actually being rejected? Or can you see beyond the Ego and recognize the kindness of your True Self offering someone a meal?
The kindness that you are showing in your reality is the actual receiving. It is not the response of the other party. You are the one giving and you are the one receving.
That also goes for any word you speak, any action you take and any other way you choose to Be in this Reality. And don´t be fooled by your thoughts. Your True Self recognizes kindness and un-kindness and the level of which you are aware of it becomes more and more visible to you as you open yourself to being you own creator.

Yes there is Love and Fear only – but we need to explain it a bit further.

Fear is not the Absence of Love. There can never be an Absence of Love. There can though be an unawarenes of Love created by points of views. Thought patterns like a painted glass hindering you from seeing the whole picture.

It was never about the Lack of Love. It was always about the distorted views. 

It´s time to decipher the thought patterns. It is time to clean your windows. 

To let your light shine takes no effort – on the contrary it invigorates you. It is you being – or rather choosing to be Your True Magnificent Self.
It takes no effort because there is nothing but space. You are space. You ARE the space you Be and always Were.
It takes no effort for it feeds the joy of being Alive. It has no polarities to hold in place for you are not trying to prove yourself.

You are no longer a separated entity in your mind, you have opened up to including and inviting Allness  – Oneness and when you do that your are met. The Angels sing!
You are overflown with the Energy of the  Divine.

Many people strive for completeness in the illusion that there is such a thing. Te truth is all is already complete and nothing is complete.
Living in the present moment gifts you an understanding and a knowing that there is no completion needed in order for you to fully be You. And thh notion that there is something that needs to be completed is an illusion created by the mind in order for you to keep being limited.

Yet nothing is complete because it can never be. The concept of complete is only based on polarity, what is and what is not, and most often only occurs in your mind when you are not present in what is. In the Now.

To be fully in the Now is a choice and also a practice. After a while you will quicker and quicker notice when you have moved out of the Now as you find yourself in negative emotion patterns like worry, anxiety or stress or negative thought patterns as lack or fear.

In the now there is no place for judgment, regret, guilt or worry nor any other negative emotion or thought because the Now is in itself full of the wonder of creation.