Everything is vibrational energy. Everything resonates and vibrates.
As we live our lives through space and time we define ourselves in order to feel real.
Everything in this reality exist in order to remind us of the Oneness we be. Only we judge that opportunity away by putting labels on what is good and bad. We pass by the opportunities of being aware and the gifts of awareness from what shows up in our lives by judging it.

If I for example have fear of ants and an ant climbs up my leg is it then the actual event or my reaction that creates a sense of fear? What is the thought , feeling, emotion that comes up that I´m unwilling to Be with that makes me go into UN-present-ness rather than awareness?

The thought, feeling and emotion we have created as the conclusion of fear is in fact a way of avoiding the awareness gifted to us by the Oneness we be.